Mr. Non-Disclosure and I never even made it to our first date. I was pretty sad about that, but he asked me to buy my OWN tickets to and from his home town. No way is that going to happen! He even asked me to book my own hotel room and send him all the confirmation information before my trip. Is this man insane?? First of all, I was stepping a little out of my comfort zone to go meet a man, in his town. The only reason I was willing to do this was because he had such a high profile in media and verified his identity in a good number of ways. I asked him, politely, to buy my tickets for me and this man tries to talk down to me. That was it! I'm not a dumb and naive girl. I'm sure as hell NOT going out there, on my own money, and putting myself in any risk! Especially not far an idiot like that. The only sad part is I'm losing a pretty nice chunk of change... :( I'd rather have my dignity though <3
On a happier note, Mr. Barneys and I had a wonderful time. :)
By the way, I need to change his name. It's really bothering me, hahaha. How about... Kurt. Totally fake name, but it's better than thinking of the purple and green dinosaur that I watched as a child, when talking about my pot SD hahah.
Anyways, he invited me for lunch at a very nice downtown steakhouse. We had a lot of fun talking and never had an awkward moment during our conversations... I think that may be a sign, girls... :) We ended up going on a second date about a week later and really hit it off. He drove me home, the entire time, the perfect gentleman! Didn't even try to kiss me, but told me later that night that he had a wonderful evening with me. I don't want to jinx anything, so I'll just update as it goes along.. !
hugs, kisses, & happy SD hunting
xoxo ;)
Wednesday, October 26, 2011
Monday, October 10, 2011
The Boyfriend.
I understand that having a boyfriend, while having a sugar daddy, can be risky. Especially because I am choosing to not let one know about the other...
I have been with my BF for almost three years now and feel that if I tell him about my extracurricular activities, he won't only dump me, but would be so hurt, that he would out my to all our friends and family.
I definitely can't have that... No one know's about the sugar life I live. I think that's why the disapproving and judging looks bother me so much, when out in public with a SD or pot. I feel like people are figuring me out and know what's really going on between us.
I've had a SD before and it wasn't to hard to keep my lives separate. All I had to do really, was be on point with deleting flirty texts, in case the BF decided to look through my phone, which surprisingly, he never did.
hugs, kisses, & happy SD hunting
xoxo ;)
I have been with my BF for almost three years now and feel that if I tell him about my extracurricular activities, he won't only dump me, but would be so hurt, that he would out my to all our friends and family.
I definitely can't have that... No one know's about the sugar life I live. I think that's why the disapproving and judging looks bother me so much, when out in public with a SD or pot. I feel like people are figuring me out and know what's really going on between us.
I've had a SD before and it wasn't to hard to keep my lives separate. All I had to do really, was be on point with deleting flirty texts, in case the BF decided to look through my phone, which surprisingly, he never did.
Do you Sugarbabes think I'm pushing my luck with this?
Can I actually have my cake and eat it too?
hugs, kisses, & happy SD hunting
xoxo ;)
Sunday, October 9, 2011
Searching for that perfect SD
I've been looking for the perfect, gentleman-ly SD who is handsome, can shower me with gifts, take me out to nice dinners, and give me at least a 5k allowance. Really... Is that too much to ask??
I've met people off of a couple of these sugar daddy sites that claim to have real sugar daddies on them... A lot of what I got from them were guys looking for a quick f***.
Seekingarrangement was the site I found most luck with and by reading other blogs, I think some others think that too.
I've been talking to two potentials for the last 3 weeks or so and they both seem very promising. One has a very high role in media and broadcasting... :) He's sent me pictures and a work email through which I could verify whether he was real or not. That was one of my terms, he had to prove who he was to me. I told him I didn't want to be lied to and in return he would get my honestly also. We'll call him Mr. Non-Disclosure because that's what he's asking me to sign. He's not from Chicago, but that will mean I'll be able to travel more with him :) Which is always good. I'll be getting 10k for the first three months (Oct-Dec... even though he cant meet in Dec because of work, i can keep the money) as an advance from Mr. ND and then, if we feel like we mesh well and want to continue, he will DOUBLE my allowance for the next three months. I'm definitely feeling this one :)
The second SD, I'm still kind of getting a feel for. He is more the shopping and gift SD. Although, he said I will get a per meet allowance from him of $750, even if he just wants to get together for coffee, lunch, dinner, or at his home. We'll call him Barneys... He told me, while we were talking about our previous arrangements, that he used to take his old SB to Barneys all the time and must have spent at least 50k only updating her wardrobe. So, of course, I said yes to lunch Friday :)
hugs, kisses, & happy SD hunting
xoxo ;)
I've met people off of a couple of these sugar daddy sites that claim to have real sugar daddies on them... A lot of what I got from them were guys looking for a quick f***.
Seekingarrangement was the site I found most luck with and by reading other blogs, I think some others think that too.
I've been talking to two potentials for the last 3 weeks or so and they both seem very promising. One has a very high role in media and broadcasting... :) He's sent me pictures and a work email through which I could verify whether he was real or not. That was one of my terms, he had to prove who he was to me. I told him I didn't want to be lied to and in return he would get my honestly also. We'll call him Mr. Non-Disclosure because that's what he's asking me to sign. He's not from Chicago, but that will mean I'll be able to travel more with him :) Which is always good. I'll be getting 10k for the first three months (Oct-Dec... even though he cant meet in Dec because of work, i can keep the money) as an advance from Mr. ND and then, if we feel like we mesh well and want to continue, he will DOUBLE my allowance for the next three months. I'm definitely feeling this one :)
The second SD, I'm still kind of getting a feel for. He is more the shopping and gift SD. Although, he said I will get a per meet allowance from him of $750, even if he just wants to get together for coffee, lunch, dinner, or at his home. We'll call him Barneys... He told me, while we were talking about our previous arrangements, that he used to take his old SB to Barneys all the time and must have spent at least 50k only updating her wardrobe. So, of course, I said yes to lunch Friday :)
hugs, kisses, & happy SD hunting
xoxo ;)
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